Archive for June, 2010

With Age

June 17th, 2010, 9:00 pm

I’ve been sitting here for some time watching this day as it unfolds. Spring colors radiate their brilliance and the light of awareness seems to brighten into this thought: As we age, we perceive the world with a greater capacity than we do when we are younger. We see mortality, we experience suffering and we imagine the end. Without this awareness, we may tend to shut down with fear, frustration and regret. However, we do have another option – to open to infinite possibility. Our diminishing eyes are being replaced by an expanding ability to see inward and into life itself. Our physical abilities, though limited, are steadier and flowing, allowing us to embrace subtlety. With age, we can open to the complexity of what it means to be human; embracing a trade-off between allowing our impulses to seek immediate fulfillment and an awareness of the soft flow of our vast capacity to experience pure possibility. When younger, we are driven to fill this capacity. With age and awareness, it is possible to simply hold open this capacity and experience the beauty of life as it reveals itself to us.

Look at your partner today. Spend time with a friend. Sit and observe, as the world you know unfolds before you. Notice what is seeking your attention and simply allow it to fill you.

“It is good to listen. If you listen carefully, without always passing judgment, you will enter into the very heart of the creature to whom you pay attention. You will begin to grow the flowers of your soul. Then all of nature will whisper to you her secrets.” (p. 161)

Michael, E.J. (1995).  Queen of the sun:  A modern revelation.  San Francisco:  Harper Collins.

Poor Folks

June 6th, 2010, 9:12 am

The other day I stumbled upon a wise man and want to share a story from his teaching. This story speaks to me of the absolute magic of a moment when we step outside of our typical frame of reference and wake up to “seeing” life as is verses as imagined. In this case a child helps us to do this:

“One day a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people can be.

They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family. On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”

 ”It was great, Dad.”

 ”Did you see how poor people can be?” the father asked.

 ”Oh Yeah” said the son.

 ”So what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father proudly.

 The son answered, I saw that we have one dog and they had four.

 We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end.

 We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night.

 Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.

 We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight.

 We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.

 We buy our food, but they grow theirs.

 We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them.”

 With this the boy’s father was speechless. Then his son added, “Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are.”

( June 4, 2010, http://www.khamneithang.blogspot.com/ )